Man Crush Monday

Dierks Bentley

Dierks Bentley was a Sigma Alpha Epsilon from the University of Vermont. He's an awesome country singer and songwriters, and has been signed to Capital Records Nashville since 2003. He's my MCM because I'm in love with this song!

How to Wear a Suit

The perfect suit for the modern man

There is nothing more perfect than a man in a suit. Every man should have his own suit after the age of 16, there is always opportunity to wear it and make an awesome impression. I have seen many men become fresh and sexy when they put on a suit. They become confident and poised, ready to take on the world. Conversely, if you don't know how to pick out the proper colors, fit or patterns then you can make quite a fool out of yourself. Here is the best advice I've found for picking out the perfect suit. Good luck, stay classy!

#SuitsAreSexy #ModernMan

"Coming Out" in a Fraternity

At the University of Pittsburgh

Zach Patton

There was an incredible story published in 2013 about a man named Zach Patton. His story is incredible and is like the stories of many across the United States. I was really excited to read his story because he reminded me a lot of myself. Zach was vice president of his Fraternity, and after he came out he was elected Inter-Fraternity Council President. When decided to rush my Fraternity I was openly gay, and it was very hard for me to look past any stereotypes I had been taught about Greek life. After discovering an incredible support system within my organization I have grown in ways I could have never foreseen. I currently lead my brothers as the president of our chapter, and I have never been more confident in the strong arms which surround me.

Natalie Daher was the reporter who tackled this story, and it was awarded the 2014 ACP Diversity Story of the Year. Receiving one of these awards is like receiving an Oscar for a college journalist.

You can find the article about Zach Patton and his experiences at the University of Pittsburgh at the Pitt News website. 

You can find the article about Natalie's experience writing the article online, at College Media Matters. Check them both out out!

Zach's photo was retrieved from pittnews.com

Man Crush Monday

Ashton Kutcher

Ashton Kutcher is a gorgeous actor, producer, tech investor and former model. He started his career as a model, and modeled for companies such as Abercrombie & Fitch Clothing and Calvin Klein. He started his acting career in 1998 by playing the handsome, airhead Kelso on the Fox series That 70's Show. Ashton Kutcher was a Delta Chi at the University of Iowa where he studied romance and biochemical engineering.

pictures retrieved from: celebutaunt.net, gopixpic.com & m.digitalspy.co.uk

How to Wear A Scarf

They aren't just for girls

I wear scarves all the time! I've been told by guys that the reason they don't wear scarves is because they think they look to feminine- that's a false assumption. Scarves have been a staple to the classy man's wardrobe for years! The only thing that makes a scarf too feminine is when it's covered in sequins or beads, it has animal or floral print, comes with a scarf pin (men don't EVER have scarf pins), or it's thick enough to be a blanket or too light to provide any warmth at all. Men, to be safe, just stick to a plain or simple patterned scarf with a rectangular cut and limited fringe. Scarves are a great way to class up any outfit and stay warm in the winter. It's a great way to add a splash of color to a bland outfit too! 

Real Men Real Style has a great style guide on how to tie a scarf- my favorites are 1, 5, 6 and 10. 

Man Crush Mondy

Steven Spielberg

This giant among men is one of Hollywood's most famous movie directors and film makers. He is a notable Theta Chi from California State University Long Beach.

photo retrieved from: buzfeed.com

Can I Rush a Fraternity if I’m Gay?

Rush can be a very scary thing. The men in fraternities can be intimidating. When I started college, I saw that many of the leaders on my campus were members of fraternities and sororities. They were confident, smart and well connected individuals. I didn’t know what to think or expect from them- before college I was under the impression that the main focus of Greek students was to get drunk and have sex all the time. I learned quickly this wasn’t the case. Through rush I learned about the values that Greeks have, the loyalty that each organization’s members, and the value they place on diversity.

There’s a movement across the united states to accept and support diversity within the Greek community, and there are many schools that don’t care what your race, religion, sexual orientation or background is. The strongest organizations are the ones that recruit based on quality- not quantity.

Being different than the other brothers in my fraternity isn't a problem because we are united through common goals, principles and standards. There will always be closed minded people in the world, and that’s not something that will change; however, I have found the strongest support system I have ever had through joining a fraternity. I have brothers all over the world. Every brother I have ever met has always treated me the same as they would any other brother, my being gay doesn’t change anything.

I can’t imagine my life without being involved in Greek life, and I will always suggest going Greek to anyone I meet. Can you rush a fraternity if you’re gay? Why the hell not!

Rush Week Bid Dinner, Fall 2012

Man Crush Monday

Brad Pitt

Brad Pitt is a babe! He went to the University of Missouri and was a member of the Sigma Chi Fraternity there. He’s an award winning actor, a classy gentleman and a notable philanthropist.