Man Crush Monday

Paul Rudd

Paul Rudd is a Sigma Nu from the University of Kansas. He is an American actor, comedian and filmmaker, and was cast in my favorite TV show of all time, Friends. He's my MCM for this week!

#MCM #PaulRudd #SigmaNu

Fraternity Statistics

Being in a fraternity will bring success

From my experience, being in a fraternity has brought me more insight and opportunities than most any other extracurricular activity. I have been asked to sit on important committees at the university, been hired for jobs and networked with people internationally. Whenever I have an interview I always know how to answer the questions I'm asked because of the experiences I've gained in a fraternity. Some of the most successful people in the country are members of the Greek system, and a lot of their success can be credited to the experiences they had through Greek leadership, networking and politics. The statistics of fraternity alums in the U.S. is very impressive.

#GoGreek #Success #FraternityMan

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Matthew McConoughey

Matthew McConoughey was a Delta Tau Delta at the University of Texas at Austin. He's a notable actor and one of the sexiest men alive.

#MCM #MatthewMcConoughey #DeltaTauDelta

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Ashton Kutcher

Ashton Kutcher is a gorgeous actor, producer, tech investor and former model. He started his career as a model, and modeled for companies such as Abercrombie & Fitch Clothing and Calvin Klein. He started his acting career in 1998 by playing the handsome, airhead Kelso on the Fox series That 70's Show. Ashton Kutcher was a Delta Chi at the University of Iowa where he studied romance and biochemical engineering.

pictures retrieved from: celebutaunt.net, gopixpic.com & m.digitalspy.co.uk

How to Wear A Scarf

They aren't just for girls

I wear scarves all the time! I've been told by guys that the reason they don't wear scarves is because they think they look to feminine- that's a false assumption. Scarves have been a staple to the classy man's wardrobe for years! The only thing that makes a scarf too feminine is when it's covered in sequins or beads, it has animal or floral print, comes with a scarf pin (men don't EVER have scarf pins), or it's thick enough to be a blanket or too light to provide any warmth at all. Men, to be safe, just stick to a plain or simple patterned scarf with a rectangular cut and limited fringe. Scarves are a great way to class up any outfit and stay warm in the winter. It's a great way to add a splash of color to a bland outfit too! 

Real Men Real Style has a great style guide on how to tie a scarf- my favorites are 1, 5, 6 and 10. 

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Steven Spielberg

This giant among men is one of Hollywood's most famous movie directors and film makers. He is a notable Theta Chi from California State University Long Beach.

photo retrieved from: buzfeed.com

Can I Rush a Fraternity if I’m Gay?

Rush can be a very scary thing. The men in fraternities can be intimidating. When I started college, I saw that many of the leaders on my campus were members of fraternities and sororities. They were confident, smart and well connected individuals. I didn’t know what to think or expect from them- before college I was under the impression that the main focus of Greek students was to get drunk and have sex all the time. I learned quickly this wasn’t the case. Through rush I learned about the values that Greeks have, the loyalty that each organization’s members, and the value they place on diversity.

There’s a movement across the united states to accept and support diversity within the Greek community, and there are many schools that don’t care what your race, religion, sexual orientation or background is. The strongest organizations are the ones that recruit based on quality- not quantity.

Being different than the other brothers in my fraternity isn't a problem because we are united through common goals, principles and standards. There will always be closed minded people in the world, and that’s not something that will change; however, I have found the strongest support system I have ever had through joining a fraternity. I have brothers all over the world. Every brother I have ever met has always treated me the same as they would any other brother, my being gay doesn’t change anything.

I can’t imagine my life without being involved in Greek life, and I will always suggest going Greek to anyone I meet. Can you rush a fraternity if you’re gay? Why the hell not!

Rush Week Bid Dinner, Fall 2012

Homophobia in Greek Life

Fraternities and Sororities at UWO joined the organization 'Get Real' to speak out against homophobia, and to teach others about the importance of embracing everyone.

My Fraternity Family

I grew up in a home where right was right and wrong was wrong, and there was no gray area. As I got older I started to realize that the lines between right and wrong are a lot more blurry than I was led to believe. The cookie cutter mold my parents wanted me to fit into was something I could never do. Needless to say, my relationship with my immediate family is almost non existent. Who would have thought I would find the family I needed in a fraternity?

Before college I could have told you a million things I wanted to do with my life- none of which were joining a fraternity. As far as I was concerned, fraternities were groups of guys who only cared about sleeping with women, getting so drunk they blacked out, and hazing pledges. I couldn't have been more wrong.

I don’t know why I joined and I have no idea what possessed me to stick it out, but I couldn't be more grateful for the organization I joined. When people look at me they automatically think “How the hell is he in a fraternity?” I fit none of the stereotypes.

My brothers taught me that it’s not on the outside that makes a man, but it is what’s on the inside that makes you classy, wise, and strong. A man is not determined by his accomplishments in the gym or bedroom, but by the strength of his heart and the way he serves others.

My organization taught me what being a man really is, and after two years of membership I have grown in ways I couldn't possibly have imagined. I have grown to love the organization I joined and now I serve my chapter in the role of president.

Going Greek is the most beneficial thing I've done with my life. It gave me a home and a support system that I can’t imagine my life without.

#fraternity #family #gay #support